110 Ways to Detect A Bad Relationship : ... Before It's Too Late

This should be taught in school... Violence is not always visible. I read Fay Weldon in the 1980's I read Robin Norwood in the 1990's I didn't get it. I had to go through decades of misery before I got it. I have simplified it for you - because all it takes is for you to listen to your gut feeling - it never lies. It took me 12 years to get out of marriage number two and five more years to figure out what happened. I hope to spare you all of that. And I hope to be able to make you aware of how you feel, and thus find the strength to not move in, or to move on much sooner than I did because chances are he / she won't change. Almost anyone can become attracted to someone with a toxic personality. Almost anyone can get stuck in a bad relationship. Why and how can you avoid it? I'll try to answer that in my books in ten minutes more or less... Are you Happy? Have you ever been in a bad relationship or known someone in one? Is it hard to understand why? How did you end up there? Why do you remain when it is so obviously bad? 110 Ways to Detect a Bad Relationship is designed to make you aware of how you feel because if you can't feel how you are, you can't move on. This will help you.

Ok – so tell me how... All right – let me ask you something... ? Does your boyfriend keep promises? Yes? He's probably an ok guy No? He might not be an ok guy How difficult is that? ? Does your boyfriend support you? Yes? He's probably an ok guy No? He might not be an ok guy ? Is he there for you if you are sick/tired/down/sad? Yes No ? Is it ok with him if you want to go home early? Yes No ? Is it ok to go to separate events / parties? Girl's night out? Yes No ? Does he return borrowed things? Yes No ? Does he have friends? Yes But they are often ditched. No ? Do you like his friends? Yes No ? Does he like his family? Yes No ? Do you? Yes No ? Does he like other people in general? Yes No ? Do your friends and family like him? Yes No ? Is he nice to kids? Yes No ? Is he open? Willing to share something that might be difficult? Yes No ? Flexible? Are changes of plans ok? Yes No ? Does he respect confidentiality? Can he keep a secret? Yes No ? If he hurts your feelings – does he learn from it and refrains from repeating? Yes No ? Are you at ease in his company? Yes No ? Do you dare express your opinions? Yes No ? Does he listen when you say no? Yes No ? Do you feel safe when he is at the wheel? Yes No ? Do you feel safe with him in general? Yes No ? Is he considerate? Yes No